How To Kiss A Guy Romantically For the First Time

By David Small •  Updated: 09/07/17 •  11 min read

How to kiss a guy romantically for the first time is the million question been asked by many young ladies. Kissing your crush for the first time can be really exciting and nerve-wracking or a total disaster depending on how you choose to go about it. But even after you get intimate, you will still need to take things a bit further by making it as romantic as possible.


A kiss really is what starts it all, you may have been flirting with each other, exchanging glances or trying to touch each other awkwardly for some time. But the true turning point is always the first kiss which is capable of leading to more kisses or even something more.

The steps below will highlight how to have a memorable and romantic first kiss with that special guy you have been fancying for quite some time.

Make the Move

There is nothing that turns a man on as much as a woman that is daring and adventurous. If you want to kiss that great guy you’ve been eyeing or seeing for a while you’re going to have to drop some hints that you are interested. Be flirty, smell good, give him a smile now and then, let him catch you sneaking quick looks at his lips, set the mood.

What kind of clothing catches his attention. Wear that little skirt or that slightly revealing top but bear in mind that the goal is to be classy and attractive not trashy. Keep your lips soft and slightly parted, make innocent. But suggestive statements like “You look so good I could Kiss you right now. If he is still slow to catch on, be bold enough to give him a lingering kiss on the cheek. That should send the clear signal.

Get a Great Location

For a romantic kiss, all you need is the right time and the right place to spice things up. If you love PDA or audience acknowledgment of your relationship. You can select a public space. Example of such sites includes a prom setting, at the movies or the beach. These places tend to give you a memorable as long as you make sure that it’s something both you and the person want to do

Another important step to take is to build tension for the kissing moment. The best way to start is by touching their fingers or arm while they are talking. If you are taking a stroll, simply brush the person’s arm and lean in closely.

Prepare for the Kiss

Now, this is a vital aspect of your first kiss, nothing turns one-off faster than an offensive odor. Having fresh, kissable breath is a major requirement of having that breathtaking first kiss. Get some mint or chew some gum as soon as you have finished eating. Or you should also drink or brush your teeth before meeting up with the person to stimulate a kiss.

You don’t even have to make it obvious that you are planning to kiss the person. You can avoid this by just offering some of the mints to the person you intend to kiss. Make sure you avoid eating food items such as spicy foods, fish, garlic, and onions. And any food that has a strong flavor and lingering

Another major requirement is smell nice, spray a minimal amount of that Victoria secret perfume he commented on the week before. And watch him fall for you all over again but be sure to be moderate – you don’t want him to choke on it

Follow his Lead

Nothing says awkwardly as much as a sloppy first kiss, you’ve waited for quite a while for this to happen. So let him lead the kiss, relax and be enveloped in the sweetness of this feeling. Stop thinking and playing different scenarios in your mind -don’t ruin the beautiful moment, close your eyes during every first kiss. And let it be short and sweet. This alone will let your partner eager for more which is bound to happen if your cards are well played.

The major reason why you need to follow his lead is the fact that men like to feel like they are in control. So you have to lead him on and trust him to take charge. This would make that first romantic kiss as sensual as you want it to be and could even lead to something more.

Go All Out

When things are getting hot and heavy, try slipping in some tongue and when you have his lower lip between yours. Make use of your tongue and run it lightly over his lip. Don’t go too fast, slower is better, but not TOO slow. Then, watch for his response. If that makes him press closer in with you and start using his tongue. It’s clear to say that he liked it and is looking to ramp up the intensity of the kiss. If he pulls away, try keeping things lighter and less heavy for now.


Dress Right

Dress for the occasion but also dress for your comfort. Having an amazing and memorable first kiss very much depends on how comfortable you are. So you have to go for an outfit that is not only mildly suggestive but also decent enough so you don’t give too much away. Make him feel like he can ravage you right there on the spot. Men love a bit of mystery so you have to give him something to think about.

Don’t use sticky lip gloss because your lips might be glued to your partner’s own while you are kissing. Also, wear some deodorant and pop on a little perfume/cologne but make sure it doesn’t have a heavy scent.

Let Your Hands Roam

This has to be my favorite part when kissing that gorgeous guy you have been thinking of for a while. Explore with your hands, don’t just stand stiffly with both arms to your sides instead let it roam. Try putting your hands on his shoulders, and turn up the heat a little bit by pulling him closer.

You can use your hands to stroke his face, or if you really want to get his motor running, put your hand on the back of his neck and bury it in his hair, Feel the muscles at his back, the width of his waist, his throbbing man (if you dare), be free.

Spend a While Kissing

A first kiss isn’t really the first kiss. It’s a series of several kisses that help both of you understand each other’s kissing styles and increase intimacy. If you want to have a perfect kiss with the guy you like, spend several minutes kissing each other the first time. And somewhere along the way, both of you would feel more connected and in tune with each other’s moves.

A kiss that doesn’t feel right will always leave you in doubt about whether the chemistry’s missing. Instead of worrying about it, just take it slow and easy and learn along the way. Enjoy the kisses, but don’t stop there. If you want to know how to kiss a guy for the first time and leave him wanting more, you need to do more than just kiss him.

Use Your Hands

Move your hands away from his back and gently move them along the contours of his shoulders and chest. It’ll bring both of you closer and give him the confidence to do the same to you. Enjoy the kiss and enjoy each other’s sensual touches as both your hands move along each other’s bodies for the first time.

But if you’re not ready for where his hands are leading him, especially if he’s inching closer to your breasts or your zipper, clasp his hand gently. And move them to a place on your body where you’re comfortable with him touching. He’ll get the point and wait for your approval the next time.

Darkness is Your Friend

Getting that first romantic kiss in the dark is all shades of sexy and kinky. As it can put you in the right mood and give you the opportunity to build up your fantasy world in your head. This is the reason why a lot of couples still turn off the light because the imagination can do some unimaginable things to that moment.

The extra darkness makes the whole moment more intense and also puts you at ease because then you won’t have to feel awkward when you are leaning in to lock lips with that amazing guy of your dreams.

Location Matters

Having a truly romantic kiss is not just about the kiss in itself, location matters a lot. And it can add more than a bit of spice to your first kiss. So you can take him to your favorite location in town or a beach, rooftops, piers. And the likes to give the both of you the perfect backdrop. This would make the kiss more memorable and that location will serve as a romantic spot for you. And that special man for a long time to come.


Play with Desserts

To get his attention to your sweet lips, you could try playing with strawberries, chocolates or ice cream. When you allude to your sweetness, it will make the idea of him kissing you more tempting for that man that your lips yearn for. And there is a huge chance that he will be the one to reach out to get a bit of that sweetness. That is all over your lips!

Follow Weather Forecasts

If you think kissing in the rain is only adorable in the movies, then think again. Because it is even more sensual and all shades of cute when it is raining. There is nothing like getting soaked down to your bones, with your wet hair streaming down your face at secluded corner. As you both kiss away the cold as passionately as you can with your hands all over each other.

So if you already know how to get his knees weak with your lips then you cajole to go with you. When the weather forecast says it is going to rain and make his all body and yours shiver with your kiss.

Break The Norm

It is always expected that the man should make the first move. But it doesn’t have to be that way as you can turn things around. And have a go at him when he least expects it in the most awkward location that you can find. Men find this incredibly sexy and this could have him coming back for more and pull a surprise on you.

Learn The Techniques

Kissing is an art and there is definitely a wrong way to do it and the right way to do it. Because even if you have the right things in place and you suck at it. So you have to work your lips to perfection by starting slowly and building it up every step of the way.

Probe it slowly and only use your tongue. When you are sure that he is comfortable to go the extra mile with you. Be sure that he is comfortable with your kissing techniques if you don’t want to end up disappointed.

Touch Matters Too

To make the kiss more romantic than it can be. It is necessary to make use of your hands to caress and touch him places. That will make the back of his head stand up. This will most likely lead to foreplay, which is just what you want right? I bet I’m right!

Don’t be Predictable

It is always boring when someone knows what you are going to do next. So it is always best to spice things up a bit by trying out new things like grabbing his brand. When you are both having a romantic kiss. Be adventurous and inventive and soon, he will be blowing up your phone because he wants to have more romantic kisses with you





David Small

is the founder and editor of relationshiptips4u. He is a dating, marriage & relationship coach, speaker, and author. Learn more about him here and connect with him on Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn.
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