Marriage Counseling Alternatives
Marriage fitness the alternative to marriage counseling by Mort Fertel is one of the most popular and impressive marriage fitness programs around the world, using his own personal experience with marriage struggled to develop a thorough program for couples struggling to stay together and get past their differences.
Admired by many successful marriage coaches, Mort Fertel has written many books on the same subject including Tele-Boot Camp, the Marriage Fitness Audio Learning System, and various Marriage Fitness Home-Flex Programs.
Appearing on various talk shows, and other stations including NBC, CBS, ABC, PBS, Fox News, Mort Fertel talks about his successful Marriage Fitness system and the psychology behind relationships, which he uses as the core principle in this program.
He is recognized as an international marriage counselor who saves many relationships and marriages every year.
It should be noted that he is not a therapist, though he has a passion for assisting couples who are in need of serious help with their marriages.
He shares that by the time the couples get to him, they are at a crossroads, and the best thing to do is take a step back and forget everything that isn’t crucial.
That is to say, that he instructs them to go back to the basics, like a baseball player who has to learn from the bottom up.
When a professional player is stuck because he simply can’t hit the ball like he used to, it’s Mort Fertel’s job to take them aside and remind them why they are doing what they’re doing.
Remind them how much they love it, and that in order to get back to that great place, you simply have to visualize getting there and remembering that amazing feeling.
This is the exact same training that desperate couples are taught in Mort Fertel program: good communication skills that describe what they want out of the relationship and guidance to get to that point.
Before you start thinking you’re doomed, take a look at what qualifies you to be part of this program. If nothing else, it’ll give you peace of mind.
No one can argue that human beings crave loving relationships: they are unions of the soul and deep love that build us up when we need help, but due to this deep bond, they can just as easily tear us down and kill us emotionally.
So, it’s important that you properly form and maintain these relationships for good – not just patched, but totally repaired to last you a lifetime.
It’s important to remember that fixing the problem means you are going to have to reflect on what it is that caused the problem in the first place, and that makes it hard sometimes when you need to dredge up the past.
It’s crucial, though, as you need to reconnect with yourself and your partner, so to get back to the happy part you must remember the time when it was happy (the past)/
This program has been designed for relationships that have problems in broken trust, infidelity, addictive behaviors, emotional abuse, emotional neglect, the brink of divorce, separation, boredom, a stubborn spouse, silent treatments, emotional infidelity, no sex, no affection, poor communication, lack of appreciation, midlife crisis or failed experiences in marriage counseling.
If you fit into one or more of these categories, you can benefit from everything this program has to offer.
Marriage Fitness Home-Flex, many couples are finding the peace that he can provide through this program. This is one that is designed for quick answers to problems that are spinning out of control.
Since this is a self-controlled program, you can stay up all hours to get the answers you are looking for, or you can take a bit of time day by day to work your way through the program slower and rebuild the relationship block by block.
Using policies, tips, tools, techniques, exercises, insights, ideas, case studies and secrets, this program shares everything it’s got to help you find a better life with each other.
Sounds pretty convincing, doesn’t it? Take a look at what others have to say about this excellent program:
“ Some months ago, however; my marriage was in crisis. My wife was having an affair as well as threatening to leave […] This one person’s review of Mort Fertel’s program — thumbs up!”
“Whilst I would listen to our teleconferences, I started to realize that I was not alone in my struggle towards getting my marriage back on track. […] No pain = No gain. Thank you for providing me the roadmap towards a successful marriage.”
There is also a discussion forum in which members can chat with each other and give support when the days get harder, or there’s a time when not everything works the way it should for one reason or another. When those days come, the forum will be there for all sorts of advice and moral support.
In using it properly, you will find the Marriage Builders Discussion Forum is one of the best supplementary resources you can find to help on those dark days.
Marriage Fitness: 4 Steps to Building & Maintaining Phenomenal Love, the book that he is famous for, is meant for those who want to upgrade their marriage or for those wanting to get a sense of who they are, how they should communicate and the quality of the content that Mort Fertel can provide.
The book outline basic principles of Marriage Fitness methodology.
The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp has specific instructions on how to heal from a damaged marriage as well as how to get trust and stop a divorce.
There are also instructions on how to heal from affairs – both physical and emotional – and is equipped to deal with basically anybody dealing with a marriage crisis.
It can be used as a resource down the line to help with any further problems and is in an order to best serve you, so make sure that you go in order of the book to best solve your problem, don’t jump around.
You may find yourself thinking, “why should I listen to this guy? How could he teach me how to fix my marriage?” Well, Mort Fertel has personal experience with a rocky marriage when his loving marriage fell apart after the death of their one-week-old child, only to be followed by the deaths of twin baby girls later on.
As to be expected, these dark moments had a huge impact on their marriage, driving them to the last resort of marriage counseling.
The more they talked, the worse it got. The only thing that saved them, in the end, was going back to basics, and focusing purely on each other, ignoring everything else about the relationship until they had a strong bond again – strong enough to develop their marriage back to where it had been before the sad parts.