I am regularly asked for recommendations on different tools, training, resources, and services available for individuals who are seeking relationship help.

As a result, I’ve put together a list of recommended relationship resources that I’ve either personally used (in most cases) or which have come highly recommended to me by people I trust.

I will add to this list as I come across new relationship resources that I recommend.

Marriage Help

Fix Your Marriage: I highly recommend Mort Fertel is a world authority on the psychology of relationships and has an international reputation for saving marriages. In addition to working with couples, he teaches individuals how to single-handedly transform their marital situation.

Recommended Reading:

1.  The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. I love this book. It goes into great detail about how we all have ways of feeling and experiencing love.

The five love languages dive into are, words of affirmation, receiving gifts.acts of service, physical touch and quality time. This book should be a must-read for everyone.

2.  How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving:  I have found this to be an excellent book on relationships.

As much as I thought I knew, I learned a lot from this book, far more than I expected. I am grateful for the information in this book. Really good stuff.Once the principles are applied your relationships will be transformed.

3.  The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, by  John M. Gottman and Nan Silver.

I have been counseling individuals for years and is constantly on the lookout for new ideas and practical advice for married couples and  I have found this book to be a masterpiece.

4.  Couple Skills: Making Your Relationship Work is written by three established authors in the self-help field. The author’s approach is unique in that it focuses on action and change, requiring the active involvement of the reader.

They have designed each chapter of the book to stand alone, allowing readers to pick and choose the sections of the book which are most personally applicable. It offers some excellent ideas on improving your communication in your marriage in a simple easy to understand way.

5.   I highly recommend this book, Why Can’t You Read My Mind? Overcoming the 9 Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship it offers for those who want to improve their relationship with solid information.

I will say that regardless of how skilled you are at communication, there is always room for improvement. If you have a good relationship you can make it greater. This is a must-read for everyone.

6.      I can honestly say this book will change your life, marriage, and future.  The Couple’s Survival Workbook: What You Can Do To Reconnect With Your Partner and Make Your Marriage Work: It is not your typical learn to communicate better crap.

This is in your face, fix yourself theory. I love it, and it works. If you are having marriage issues, be honest and face the real problem in your marriage, and if you want to save or restore your marriage, then you need to read this book.

7. If communication has begun to wane in your relationship(s), this is a fantastic way to get back on track. I recommend The Power of Two Workbook: Communication Skills for a Strong & Loving Marriage highly for anyone in a relationship be it personal, business, friends.

It has some great pointers and typically will start with a brief description of the problem, it shows ways of communicating and how to remedy them.

Then it has you complete short exercises to practice the skill they had just introduced. I think everyone could benefit from learning different ways to Communicate.

8. Contending that some women are “too nice,” comedian and radio show host Sherry Argov has written Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dream girl-A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship.

“I’m not recommending that a woman has an abrasive disposition,” Argov writes, “The woman I’m describing is kind yet strong. She doesn’t give up her life, and she won’t chase a man.”

Her sassy book is filled with scenarios and advice aimed at making women subtly stronger and self-empowered. Argov’s principles, which range from the far-fetched to the downright absurd, include “If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give you the world” and “A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.” The book, which has already been featured on The View and The O’Reilly Factor, should make waves with its controversial view of relationships.


9.  Kara King’s controversial dating and relationship advice book, “The Power of the Pussy“, shares 12 powerful secrets that will transform any woman into the type of strong, desirable woman that can effortlessly obtain what she wants from men; including the love, respect, and relationship she desires.

In this book, you’ll learn valuable lessons that will teach you how to…

-Flip the switch in your female brain, so you can beat men at their own game…
-Have men lining up to date you and desperate for your attention…
-Get over a divorce or break up, heal a broken heart, and never be sad over a man again!
-Become the type of woman that commands respect from men…
-Get the proposal, the ring, and the man of your dreams!
Get what you want from men and have the time of your life while doing it!  This book has empowered women and dramatically changed their lives by changing the way they think about men and dating… and it can change your life too!


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