How to Impress Your Husband: The Hidden Truth

By David Small •  Updated: 02/24/20 •  14 min read
How to Impress Your Husband

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As you get to spend some time with your husband, the flame of passion for your partner shrinks. As life, responsibilities, work, and children add to the list, it is easier for partners to drift apart.

For a woman, keeping your husband happy is critical for the success of a marriage. If responsibilities have taken a toll on your married life, don’t worry.

You don’t need big gestures to impress your husband. By being a little more considerate and empathetic, you can rekindle the passion in your marriage.

Before we get into the details, it is important to understand that there are different ways through which you can impress your husband.

You just don’t need to seduce him and drive him crazy in bed, but physically impressing your husband is equally important. So let’s read about 21 proven ways to impress your husband.

How to Attract Your Husband Physically.

Marriage is not just about sharing a room. It is about being physically close to each other and sharing the intimate details of your life.

But if your husband is more like your roommate, try some of these proven methods to physically attract your husband.

1. Smile.

A smile can do wonders. Roy T. Bennet said it best in The Light in the Heart, “More smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgment.

More blessed, less stressed. Love, less hate.” This simple gesture can be an expression of love, affirmation, and admiration. It shows how much you value the other person.

A smile can drastically improve your mood and the mood of those around you. So when your husband comes home from work or wakes up in the morning, greet him with a smile.

It only takes a few seconds, but this simple smile can make a whole lot of difference in the entire atmosphere of your home.

A smile sets a friendly tone and space for your partner to unwind after a long day. And it is a small but very powerful tool to impress your husband.

2. Be Polite.

Respect is critical in every relationship, but it is far more crucial in your married life. The way you talk to your husband sets the tone for the conversation that follows.

So always remember, speak the language of respect. Be polite! No matter what happens and where the argument heads, just remember to be polite.

Because if your husband feels disrespected, he will feel hurt; and if this becomes the norm, it can ruin your marriage.

3. Take Care of Your Health.

If you want to physically attract your husband, you need to be fit. A man’s needs are not only limited to sex but extend far beyond that. He needs a healthy, happy wife.

So it is important that you take care of your health. Eat a healthy and balanced diet, join a fitness club, and stay active.

This will improve your immunity against diseases and will improve your stamina. An added advantage: taking care of your health will help you stay in the right shape.

All this is a very effective way of physically impressing your husband.

4. You are Gorgeous – Make Sure He Knows it!

In the wise words of Coco Chanel, “A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” Every woman is beautiful to her husband. But many women often neglect basic self-care needs.

Skipping these basics can have a negative impact on the amount of physical attraction your husband feels for you.

Take care of your basic hygiene, shower daily, neatly comb your hair and wear a nice perfume. The way you dress is also very important.

Choose a style that your husband prefers. Nicely fitted and stylish clothes will not only compliment your body and boost your own self-esteem but will also help attract your husband.

Invest in some lingerie that will help you feel sexy while making you irresistible to him.

Taking out time for yourself is a must. Take an appointment for a facial, or some other services like waxing.

This will not only attract your husband but will boost your self-confidence as well, which eventually will impress your husband.

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5. Attract His Mind.

As Friedrich Nietzsche said, “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” You need to serve your husband’s mental needs just as much as his physical needs.

Men are impressed by women who are aware of what is happening around the world. A man wants to come home to a woman who can talk to him about his day, and be interested in discussing mentally stimulating topics.

Read up on the news, and find out what is happening in the global arena. Once you are aware, have a viewpoint on several important issues and hold a discussion with your husband.

Healthy debates and engaging conversations will definitely have a positive impact on your married life. Because a wife with intellect is certainly what a man needs.

If you are not interested in news and political discussions, you can start off by reading a newspaper and novels.

6. Appreciate Your Husband.

Every human thrives on appreciation and your husband is certainly not an exception. Appreciate your husband for whatever he is doing for you. Let him know that he is special and tell him why.

By appreciating your husband, you are directing him about what you value the most. So don’t just appreciate him by saying a plain “Thank you”. Instead, be specific.

Mention what he did which made you feel valued. So you can try saying “Thank you for helping me clean up the kitchen”.

This specific appreciation will help your partner understand what you expect, and will make him feel like his contribution is valued.

7. Be Confident.

Confidence can win the game. Men are attracted to women who are bold and confident. It adds value to your beauty and appearance.

If you are shy, no matter what you wear or how you dress, it will all go in vain.

The first step towards impressing your husband is by building confidence in your own abilities and qualities. Once you are confident about who you are, it will reflect in your actions and behavior.

But while you should be confident, you should not appear arrogant, so make sure there is a balance.

8. Always Offer Support.

The relationship between a husband and wife is that of respect and support. When you are blue or feeling upset, you need support- both emotional and moral.

The same goes for men. Though they are physically stronger than women and don’t need much physical support, your husband still needs your emotional and moral support.

Also, don’t wait until he asks you for help. You should be able to sense it from his actions and behavior. So as soon as you realize that he needs support, instead of getting angry, help him.

Find a way to spend time together so that he can unwind and share his worries. Together, you and your husband will figure a way out.

9. Prepare a Delicious Meal.

It is rightly said, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Make your husband feel special by cooking a delicious meal especially for him.

You don’t have to be a great cook, but if you put in an effort only for him, that’s all that matters. You can also prepare a delicious meal together.

It is an amazing opportunity to bond with your partner and has a great time together.

10. Express Your Love and Affection.

Loving someone is not enough unless you express it. Express your love for your husband every single day. It is a way to tell your partner how much you value him.

But if you are not very good with words, there are numerous other ways to express your love and affection. Write a small note for your husband on the refrigerator, or buy him flowers.

Cooking his favorite meal and taking care of him when he is sick are also some ways to let him know how much he means to you.

11. Plan a Date Night.

As you spend a few years into your married life, a date night seems like a distant memory. But if you want to impress your husband, a date night can be a perfect opportunity.

While your kids are asleep at home, make a reservation at a fancy restaurant. Spend time together- just you and your husband.

An additional recommendation: Put your cell phones away on date night. So it’s just about you two.

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12. Make Your Home a Place of Comfort.

The stress levels in a messy home can be high. So if you want to impress your husband, make sure your house appears neat and comfortable.

You don’t have to be one of your toes to keep your house clean all the time. Instead, you can divide your house into clean and messy zones.

You can also hire house help for maintaining your home. Even better, you and your husband can clean the house together.

This teamwork is an opportunity to spend time together. At the same time, it will make your home a place of comfort.

How to Attract Your Husband in Bed.

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When it comes to impressing your husband in bed, many women have a hard time sexually arousing their partner.

They don’t know how to get them into the mood for sex and make sex a passionate and exhilarating experience.

So ladies, don’t worry. If you are one of those women, this post is for you. Below, you can read about how to attract your husband in bed and leave him wanting more.

13. Take Initiative.

If you want to make love to your husband, don’t wait for him to make the first move. Be open about your needs. Let him know that you need him.

That should definitely get him all fired up. If he is still not in the mood though, move on to # 19. It is ok for women to express their desire and get started with it.

As Michael Bassey Johnson said, “True love is not a hide and seek game: in true love, both lovers seek each other.”

14. Tease Him.

So you want to attract your husband in bed? Try to tease him. You don’t have to dress up for that. Instead, undress. Put on a striptease for your husband.

Taking off your clothes one at a time while you maintain eye contact. Or indulge in foreplay; tell him what you want him to do in bed, or where you want his hands to be.

Often, dirty talk can drive your husband crazy and he will end up wanting more of you.

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15. Get Creative.

Sex is a regular part of married life. But if sex is not as satisfying for you as it used to be, it is possible that there is some underlying problem.

Not in you or your partner, but in the routine. Repeating the same thing over and over again can get boring. So spice up your sex life by getting a little creative.

Try and experiment with new positions and ways to make your sex life exciting again. But it is important to make sure that both you and your partner are comfortable.

16. Take Control.

Men are attracted to women who take control in bed. Be on top of your husband while he rests in a comfortable position. Place a pillow under his head and behind the back.

Make sure he is relaxed and comfortable. When a woman is in charge, this gives more pleasure. Take control so that you two can have an amazing time together.

17. Try Some Oil.

Massage is known to be one of the most erotic ways to relax. A deep pressure massage can relax your husband and attract him towards you at the same time.

What else can your husband want at the end of a tiring day?

Using aromatic oil, massage his back and shoulders. You can move your fingers down as you continue massaging different parts of his body.

A relaxing massage will make him forget about all his worries and make him want you.

This is because massage, when done right, can be incredibly sexy- and when your hands are on his body, how could he possibly keep his hands off you?

18. Invest in Fancy Lingerie.

Wear your finest and sexiest lingerie. A corset or a silky gown will seduce your husband physically and attract him towards you in bed.

You can try different styles and colors, but choose lingerie based on your body type and size. Keep in mind your husband’s favorite colors and styles. Stock up.

This investment will surely pay you in the long run.

19. Use the Right Touch.

Want to bring the romance back to your sex life? Know where to touch him. To get into the mood, your husband needs to be touched at a few places. Try caressing his inner thighs.

Though you can enjoy your husband’s sex organ, get your fingers moving around the entire area can maximize pleasure and get him in the mood.

Gently stroke the chest and moving your hands around his chest hair will also help in getting things started. A relaxing massage on the back and behind can also arouse him and drive him crazy in bed.

There are many other parts of your husband’s body where he enjoys being touched. The back of his neck, ears, and neck are all sensitive areas that can arouse your husband.

Along with your fingers and hands, you can use your tongue and lips for a more sensual effect.

20. Be a Little Flirty.

Charlotte Bronte said it perfectly in her book Jane Eyre, “Flirting is a woman’s trade, one must keep in practice.” While some men like direct conversations, others thrive when their wives flirt.

Flirting can add an exciting effect to your sex life even when you have been married for years. It will remind you about the things which you loved about each other.

And most importantly, men like it! Crack a cheesy joke, cuddle up beside him, or whisper something sweet. Of course, there are many more ways to flirt with your husband.

So try what works best with yours.

21. Set up.

If you want to seduce your husband and make him want you, set the stage. Create a setting that can arouse him. Light scented candles, play nice music and dress the way he wants.

You can try setting up in your bathroom too. A bathtub with warm water and relaxing bath salts as you wait for him there will immediately get the message across.

What happens next will be exactly what you anticipated.


Finally, you have a list of 21 proven ways to impress your husband. There are numerous other ways to attract and impress your husband but just remember, there are no shortcuts.

You have to put in the effort to impress your husband physically and sexually. To become active, take care of your needs, and upgrade yourself.

Empathize, admire, and express your love for your husband. Use your body to impress him, communicate with him, and drive him crazy.

If you are sincere, your efforts will definitely pay off and you will have a renewed sense of intimacy in your marriage.

David Small

is the founder and editor of relationshiptips4u. He is a dating, marriage & relationship coach, speaker, and author. Learn more about him here and connect with him on Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn.
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